Answer: "The Reverends (his first name) and (her first name) (their last name)" is the proper way to address an envelope. Dear "Reverends (last name)" would be the opening to a letter. If introducing the couple to another person, "These are the reverends (so and so)" would be appropriate.
Answer: Same-sex married couples are protected against discrimination in the area of public accommodation in some states, but not in others. If the only remedy is a lawsuit (you could also appeal to headquarters, etc.), then such an act is illegal under the statutes of these states: AZ, CA, CO, CT, DE, HI, IL, IA, ME, MD, MA, MN, NV, NH, NJ, NM, NY, OR, RI, VT, WA and WI. It is also illegal in DC.
Another Perspective In those states and jurisdictions where same sex marriage has been legalized the gym must extend family membership pricing to same sex married couples. In other states that type of protection may vary under different civil union/domestic partnership statutes since those legal arrangements sometimes fail to provide equal protection under the law. Some civil unions/domestic partnerships arrangements do not approach the broad array of rights afforded to married couples. You would need to check the particular state law. In addition, anti-discrimination rights have been evolving over time in the US and that process has been speeding up as people and legislatures find it more and more difficult to justify discrimination based on sexual preferences. See related link.
Answer: Yes, my husband has a small penis. But my husband has learned other ways to satisfy me that believe me are 100 times better than an 8 incher or better. Tell him to look for the little man in the boat to start.</
Answer: A married couple should buy a house first before a car. Public transport is readily available everywhere, a secure roof over your head is more important than a car. Second hand cars can be purchased reasonably cheap later down the track.
Answer: By presenting any old document that contains your former address (e.g.: utility bills, tax returns, etc). A good one would be your drivers license since your former location of residence would be recorded in the DMV files.